Hmmmm where do I start with this? Well everyone wants a love story, I know I do. Recently God has helped me understand what he wants in a relationship. But most importantly what he does before the relationship even begins or is given. In Gods word he states, “ But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you” (Mathew 6:33). That’s exactly what Adam was doing before he received Eve. I’m pretty sure Adam didn’t even know he was going to receive a partner. All he was focused on was doing Gods will. He was focused on working the land, focused on whatever tasks God asked of him to do. After God saw that Adam was whole and living in obedience/oneness with him that’s when he decided “it is not good for man to be alone”. You see there are some things that God wants you to do before you get with the person he calls you to be with. He wants you to be okay and be satisfied with just being with him. He gives us things because he loves us and wants to see us happy. Not because we really need them. Everyone has a season or has seasons in their life where they need to experience and understand that they only really just need God. Also it’s not that God doesn’t want to give us things he knows we desire, he’s also working behind the scenes. There is also a spiritual world/realm that no one sees. Sometimes he’s fighting for our behalf. Sometimes he’s simply just being patient with us. Other times he’s moving things around. God knows what you need best and when you need it best because he’s your creator. If he gave you certain things in your current state it’s possible that instead of it being a blessing to you, you will turn it into a curse or ruin it. The simple truth is that God created everything so detailed and specific; even with timing. He knows you and he knows your hearts desires. But one thing he simply asks of you before anything is that you be whole with him first. That you seek and be fully in his presence/kingdom. So if I’m here to tell you something is to simply get to the point in your life where you truly understand that only God can satisfy. God is enough, you should be more than good if all you are left with is God. The truth is that people are going to fail you; even the ones closest to you. But you should be okay because you know even if people fail, God will never and that should give you peace. I’ve had to learn and I hope you learn from this post that it will come in due time. Just focus on being one with God. Focus on living for him and getting to know your Father more. Also sometimes we want a relationship and we can’t even give them anything. If we don’t know God or have a relationship with him, we won’t be able to give our partner anything. God is love, patient, faithful, gentle, good, peaceful, joyful, kind, and self controlled. Being one with God is what teaches us how to treat others because he’s all these things. We have something to give when we are truly one with the Father. So if you are reading, be patient because God is working on your love story…