Welcome back guys! I am so excited to share this blog with you. To all my fellas out there, we will be talking about a godly woman. But i don’t want you to think for one second, this does not pertain to you. You also want to read this blog, along with the women that will be reading this. This will teach you about the type of woman you SHOULD be pursuing. I feel like in today’s day in age a lot of men go after women with a banging body, beautiful face, flirty personality, etc. Although you are entitled to your own liking, if you are truly a “godly man” your liking will go beyond just a woman having a banging body. You know what the bible says in Proverbs 31…? The bible states in verse 30, “ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised”. Let me elaborate, a woman who is charming can be misleading and trick you. Meaning her charm may not paint the whole picture. She can show you that she is good on the outside but on the inside be rotten. Maybe she has a lot of hatred, anger, jealously, comparison, evil, etc in her heart. One of my friends said the other day, ” Not everything that shines is gold” ! You know how deep that is??? Meaning just because something appears to be real it doesn’t necessarily mean it is. Just because a girl looks like a good person it doesn’t mean she actually is. A woman can tell you she’s a good person, but do her actions show it? The word also says beauty is fleeting, meaning that beauty doesn’t last long. One day we are all going to get old and some things might change about our appearances. A lot of us human beings like to think and dwell on temporary things. But you don’t think about your future. Yes, it might be cool to have a girl with a banging body. But will her banging body help her be a good mom or wife one day? If all she has to offer is simply having a banging body, will that be enough? But does she love God though? Does she know know God and is she constantly trying to be like Jesus. Does she pray for you? Is she intimate with God, consistently?- If she is not consistent with God, you think she will be with you? If her relationship with God isn’t good, what makes you think yours will be any better. Her relationship with God will be a reflection of how your relationship will be. Does she have all the fruits of the spirit? Does she love people? Does she communicate? Does she have traumas she hasn’t healed from? Is this the type of girl you see being your wife and the mother of your kids one day? Do you think she would make you happy temporarily or endlessly? Does her words match her actions?

I love Proverbs 31 so much !! You guys don’t understand how passionate i am for this chapter and honestly this whole book! God speaks about wisdom in this whole book He literally teaches in this book how we must live in order to be true Christians. He speaks about what is acceptable and what is not. I love chapter 31 because it teaches me what type of woman i want to be. Everyday i strive to be a Proverbs 31 woman. To me that is literally what a godly woman, mother, wife looks like. This woman is…

1. Strong.
2. Her husband is confident in her and lacks nothing.
3. She brings her husband good and not harm.
4. Helps those in need.
5. She isn’t lazy and provides food her family.
6. She is hardworking.
7. Her lamp does not go off at night.
8. She makes sure her family has everything they need.
9. She is clothed with strength and dignity;  she can laugh at the days to come.
10. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
11.  She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.

This woman is literally a loving servant. You don’t know how much i long to experience and hear these next two verses. “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all”. I can’t wait to hear this from God and my future family. I want to be the woman God wants me to be, and i will be! I am getting and already there in the name of Jesus! You, woman who is reading this right now, strive to be like this woman as well! It will get you honor and favor from the Lord, trust me i am a living proof. If you are a male and are reading this, strive for this type of woman… Proverbs 14:1 states, ” Every wise woman encourages and builds up her family, but a foolish woman over time will tear it down by her own actions”. Be careful keeping your focus on woman simply for their beauty, she could be fleeting and disastrous.